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Specially HTML clipboardHandmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces there is one kind of psychology in note [1 ] "  The cognitive treatment "  ,Solve various psychological problems through changing the cognition of people. 
Important part of the pressure while working and living that the interpersonal relationships often become moderns of the note [2 ], not good at solving the problem in this respect, may still get into a difficult position. Appendix ￠ò of this book "  Handle ten rules of Daikin of interpersonal relationships "  Attempt to answer this question, but for reader's reference. 
[3 ] note for many years, I say a story more than once of book, this story spreads wide now. One old lady have two daughter, one sell umbrella, one sell for shoes. The old lady lives very arduously, when it is fine, she is worried for the daughter who sells the umbrella, I'm afraid the umbrella does not sell well. In the rainy day, for sell for daughter of shoes worry, afraid nobody buys the shoes she. Being too tired in life, she caught one suit of diseases finally. Someone instructs the old lady to ask the honorific Buddhist monk. The honorific Buddhist monk has listened to the old lady's trouble, teach her a very simple method, let, get fine day for sell for daughter of shoes glad, will certainly have a lot of people buy the shoes each time after the old lady; It will be glad to reach the rainy day for the daughter who sells the umbrella, because there must be a lot of people to need the umbrella when raining. In this way, no matter the fine rainy day will all be glad. The old lady has listened to honorific Buddhist monk, happy everyday from then on, before long, the disease on her was cured too. 
This is to change the function on life of cognition. 
Life when different cognitive decisions are different. 
The successful personage succeeds, often because they have cognition more correct than common people on some significance life. 
There is one kind of psychology in note [4 ] "  Behavior therapy "  ,Solve various psychological problems through various behaviors.   
The 13th type: Both sides would rather (1)   
Why does not the billionaire dare to take the lift 
Anxious that a boss initiates because of the undertaking, even lift does not dare to have when symptom is serious. 
Analyze, it is because of working pressure naturally. Then, " take away the firewood from under the cauldron " with soul Taiji , " go into battle with a light pack "  Wait for the movements in martial arts to help him to clear up "  Busy with the hard account "  ,Reduce pressure. Each depression effective, pass period of time seem a little repeated. Another analysis, the origin, to he " wild ambition " It is too big. His stand, no matter how accepts, always pave greater and greater. Even his wife says his wild ambition is "  See the wind is long "  . 
I say to him: We will try every possible means fundamentally. 
He asks: Is there any more basic method? 
I say: You should also clear up one's own hope [1 ]. 
He is slightly a bit unexpected: Clear up the hope? 
I say: Quite right, a lot of failures and worried capitals of ours come from the question of the hope. 
For example falling in love, your hope is to talk to so-and-so, but the other side does not have an optimistic view of you at all, you had invested much mental and physical efforts financial resources in vain, must fail and worried finally finally. What is the reason among them? 
This boss answers: Fond dream. 
I say: Quite right. You want to do a project, want to cooperate with another party, this is the same with falling in love, you and the other side are still a kind of bilateral relation. If you just think of one's own idea, ignore the other side's idea, this is a fond dream, the result must waste strength, the failure adds the trouble finally. 
The boss nods and says: Can do anything fond dream, take, consider another party. 
I say: What basic bilateral relation most all over the world, you tell me. 
The boss is considering and has not answered. 
I say: The most basic bilateral relation which we face is we and realistic relation. 
We do every thing, all cooperate in sum realistically. If only consider one's own hope, inconsiderate to reality, then we are making the wishful mistake. How many fond dreams does it have, fail and worried more or less. 
When the hope is a fond dream, you and reality have already been in contradiction difference. 
Then, you make great efforts again, it is unable to succeed. 
Does this boss ask me what the conclusion is? 
I say: Conclusion one, after we fail, do not need and always look for the reason at the method, should go back to examine the hope excessively; Conclusion two, there are troubles, will look for the origin from our hope frequently too, the hope is wrong, fault of a fault one hundred. 
This boss has thought: Who could think of examining one's own hope? 
I say: We are often aptest to neglect the examination of the hope. 
Clear up " busy with the hard account " Easy to do. 
Clear up " the hope account " It was most of people that never done. 
What project we are used to regarding the hope as one's own set starting point, for example you want to do, how developed to think, never leave behind easily, but who does not know, the peace talk love is the same, HTML clipboardMobile POS|Contactless POS|Fingerprint POS|Credit Card Terminal|Point of Sale when we have chosen a target not concluding at all, have already made the bitter pill that fails for oneself. 
Want, in obtain most heavy to succeed in the least worried in life, work as method master at first, work as the hope master [2 ]. 
The cleverest person, should make one's own hope " wise " first .