Five major reasons eager to get married after 80
Posted by : wishgoHe loves you to look for one, you do not love the person of him; So long as rich, can offer superior life to you at least; Do not divorce after getting married. Such words, can rise from a big basket in the mouth after 80 at will. However, as to the essence of the marriage, as to the management of the family, women are all ignorant and dull after 80.
After 80 at present is the reality, the purpose that they get married, 90% are all set up on the gold foundation of helping. Their requirements for man have rooms, there are cars, have tickets; If there is no room, not there is not a car or have no ticket, do not talk about. In the eyes after 80, only rich, it is unacceptable to have nothing.
In their eyes, saw the house, car, has looked like and seen one's own future. This is a prerequisite of the marriage. To them, house and money are the necessities of the life, and the love is only a kind of seasoning. It is a kind of seasoning which is used in house and money.
The trials and tribulations couple in the past, said later, rose sillily at all as to 80 at present.
Have nothing to go through thick and thin in the eyes at all after 80, want to have a look at the pre-marital property first in the first first thing of getting married, a primary one is to see the husband writes her name into the property ownership certificate; How much property can be shaved and divided by her after marriage; The love is unimportant with loving. It it seemses that it is a deal getting in touch with money tightly that this gets married.
Have no independent ability of economy
Eager to get married, because they have no independent ability of economy; So, they must be married an income higher, the man with better material base. Marry such man, has looked for a job in other words, one does not brush the credit card of explosion forever, a long-term meal ticket.
In the strange land
Only because in the alien land, become people working for others again, there is no generous income even more, live in for a long time and hire out the room. So they want to look for a local marriage more urgently, the reason enters hiring out the room only in order to no longer live in.
Covet, envy
Looking at a bit worse than one's own good looks life of living the silk clothing jade food at one's side, they want, attain the highest level in one step too, pass, have gluttonous and lazy day like the immortal; Then leave the husband age alone, height fat and tight, have emotion is only rich, so long as can let them live and live like this - -Marry.
Loneliness on the emotion
Have because of loneliness of emotion too, need, look for one sustenance and get married. Have a chat blow this with one 80 girl once, but answer of her let me know whether to laugh and cry especially. When I ask why she is eager to look for the boyfriend, she answers: "Look for pieces of boyfriend very getting fine, sometimes hungry, want what does it wipe out, so long as speak at midnight, someone will run errands, needn't move by oneself " .
The present social competition is fierce, have no ability after some 80, there is no capability to participate in even more; So will be anxious to want to look for a shoulder to depend on. So, all hold the utility purpose and get married after being analogous to 80 of a part, all set out from reality and practically.
The outlook on life goes wrong
After there is 80 of a part too, their marriage is not for utility, not for the house, but their outlook on life has gone wrong. They hold the cynical attitude, will not go to consider whether two people are suitable for living after marriage. Just see the people around all get married, what has been felt very weak is eager to marry by oneself.
Still some women with scheming, greedy. They often pinch the husband's money in one's own hands tightly, in this case, they can hold and has not intimidated even more. Even if divorce, does not need struggling hard either.
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Flexible and is thought of changing and handling affairs
Posted by : wishgoFlexible and is thought of changing and handling affairs
People all say: "Fail to make a decision when one should, must receive its messy, act as disconnected broken all things safe. " This truth no doubt, have some thing to " act as, connect with, must receive their messy in life, act as and connect with connecting with all things safely " Shape. The boundless universe, human society, there is no unalterable truth, there is no absolute truth, everything should proceed from the reality, should not be extremely moved the dogma to fetter and limit. Otherwise become metaphysics and book worship, will make the fundamental mistake, will plant the great fall. Chen Duxiu says to them when two sons of his will go abroad soon: Meet new things are if objective and rational, will want, think, change, otherwise head can rigid outside - -Have explained the importance changed of thinking.
While living in the world, there are few things that can be expected, there are many things that can't be expected, a lot of people meet unexpectedly, a lot of things are to happen suddenly, so our grasping in original truth is on the foundation, can use out to come flexibly, anything incomplete of a lot of perfect scripts that I will think in the world. The world is big, nothing is strange, the world is big, changeable, this world avoids simple equating most, most afraid in life that looks at thinking definitely. Look at thinking head rigid, head rigid to can strangle a lot of objective reasonable new things definitely, will cast into a lot of regrets. Regret because head rigid to lose flexible change, with death mistake that eyes' getting along with people and dealing with matters take place, these mistakes will accompany you for all one's life, let your agony feel guilty and regret. The same thing is right in A, but perhaps wrong after reaching B. The environment has changed, appraise the target to change, the folkways and customs have changed, do not go to check and change one's own thinking, only according to subjective disagreement and preach being useless, so we should learn to crook and stretch looking at problem relatively. One law use and rooted in the hearts of the people objectively in our country, reach other countries to be perhaps unknown by the people and accepting, it is obvious those laws can function, not unqualified, and have an effect under the condition that the condition possess. This is a response of relative function too, there is no absolute truth in this world. It is a truth in the polar region, it is perhaps the fallacy that nobody believes to reach the area of the equator. It is not unalterable that it is good and meddlesome in this world, it is as ethnic group, culture, history, nature, environment, social system, economic level and ideology level are changing constantly.
Thus, don't only defend tenaciously the stupid letter and " must receive it to fail to make a decision when one should messily " ,Firmly believe and realize in a flexible way " Act as and connect with connecting with all things safely " Law, truth sum function. Try hard to reduce the number of times of making a mistake, try hard to lighten the regretful intensity of the regret. HTML clipboard
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